Cut the chords of psychic energy
It is becoming increasingly clear that there is an invisible network of energy that unites us all. This energy network is mentioned in books like “The Field” by Lynne McTaggart, “What You Can Feel You Can Heal” by John Gray, “The Celestine Prophecy” by James Redfield, and even movies like “The Secret.” and “What the hell do we know?”
We know that invisible forces affect us. For example, we do not see the wind or the air we breathe. We do not see viruses in the air or bacteria in our food. Similarly, we do not see the invisible thread of energy that stands between us and those with whom we interact on a daily basis.
I began to understand the psychic connection between people about ten years ago, although I have known it on some level for most of my life.
I was on a massage table doing energy work and my therapist said I had so many psychic chords attached to me that I needed to get the mower out. It was kind of a joke between us. Normally, when one performs a chord cutting exercise, one uses an imaginary sword or scissors.
Just as the energy worker passed through my psychic energy field with the lawnmower, my narcissistic boyfriend jumped out of the waiting room I was in and ran in angry and disoriented. The next day, another emotionally vampiric ex-boyfriend contacted me via email, as did his ex-wife and daughter. I was amazed at the power of this fairly simple process. Those who had been disconnected sensed me on some level and contacted me in an effort to reconnect.
Earlier that month, a woman, who could see the energy, saw a rope like a hose running from me to my boyfriend and said it was sucking my energy.
When I began to study narcissism and its psychic effects on the victim, I was able to see the power these psychic chords had to influence our reality. I also saw the importance of separating or cutting those chords to be free from the ongoing psychic effects of that relationship.
I performed a series of chord-cutting exercises on myself to break psychic ties with my ex-narcissistic boyfriend. I could see how he would psychically reconnect even after six months of not seeing him. This would happen in my weakest moments when I blamed myself or felt bad about myself in some way. In a sense, it would invite him to reconnect because there was a part of me that wanted him.
Unfortunately, the psychic connection between me and my ex-boyfriend was very unhealthy for me. It resulted in me feeling weak, powerless, obsessive, sad, depressed, tired, and seeing myself as a failure. Cutting the psychic chords would restore my power and self-confidence.
I realized that through this psychic connection I was assuming everything that he had always projected onto me. I owned his things, allowing the dark and murky waters of his emotional reality to flow into my energy field, polluting my reality.
When we cut the psychic hose that pours the toxic and cloudy energy of an unconscious partner or former partner into our energy field, we can begin to see clear water once more. It was pretty clear that this narcissistic individual in my life needed to have someone to unleash his pent-up emotional toxicity on in order to feel strong within himself. If he wasn’t fucking me, he would be fucking someone else.
Once we disconnect those psychic and emotional chords, the person who has been borrowing our energy will feel a difference and may even know, on some level, that something just happened and that it has to do with you. Often times the phone will ring, or we will receive an email, or it may even show up at the door. This is a time when we must be particularly strong and keep our energy to ourselves.
Sometimes we need to repeat the process of cutting the psychic strings several times to be completely free of the energy that is draining us. I think the process always works, even when we don’t feel an immediate difference. The only reason it may seem like it doesn’t work, for some, is that they have become so used to the murky energy of the psychic vampire in their life that they invite the chord to rejoin.
We are comfortable with what is familiar to us and if we have established a pattern with a narcissistic or emotional vampire, we have to really understand how to break that connection and change the pattern.
I spoke with a woman who once described attachment as a gray cloud over her head and was so used to this cloud that when she left she lost it and went looking for the cloud. It was as if having a blue sky in his life was something unfamiliar and somewhat uncomfortable. We get used to our dark clouds and are not sure what to do when they leave. It is the same reason that victims of abuse continue to find people to abuse. It is familiar and comfortable.
So when you cut those psychic chords, you have to be ready and willing to accept a change in your life. There will be something missing! But nature always moves to fill a void in our lives. Be prepared to accept something better. Invite something better into your life. Invite love, light and positive energy. It may take a while to get used to how this feels in your energy field, but once you adjust to it, you’ll be glad you made the invitation.