4 Tips For Sweet Revenge – The Ex Boyfriend Will Cry

Do not do it! Sure, you broke up with your boyfriend and you feel sad or maybe you feel like you want to get even. Unless you know what you’re doing, don’t even think about all those terrible but perhaps satisfying things you could do to him. Instead, consider these 4 tips for getting back at an ex-boyfriend and yet keeping his dignity and not doing anything you might regret later.

Tip #1

Take some action to make yourself more attractive to others. Not just to be more physically attractive to other men, but to be more alive and give people good vibes. It is true that people are attracted to others who seem strong, healthy and happy.

If you immediately get to work with regular workouts and doing some yoga or some other formal exercise and wellness plan, that’s a great start. Try a new hairstyle. What will give you more confidence? Sometimes it can be a new pair of shoes or a sexy short dress that makes you feel more desirable. But this has nothing to do with sex and everything to do with strength, self-confidence and being in control.

Tip #2

As you work on your self-image and build some confidence, be sure to meet up with some of the mutual friends you and your ex have. Or if you run into your ex in town, that’s great too, but wherever you go, you need to focus on you! You need to find happiness with your independence and growing inner strength, and don’t even think about your ex right now. Your friends and their friends will notice this. To get back at your ex boyfriend in the most effective way, you want him to believe that you are getting stronger and happier without him!

Tip #3

At some point, your ex boyfriend is likely to call you, as he is very curious that you seem to be fine or better off without him. When you talk, don’t bring up your relationship or past issues, and definitely don’t sound angry or resentful about the breakup, even if you hate it. Because? The best revenge is not a direct approach with jokes, or hurtful actions or statements. If you do those things, he might take satisfaction in thinking that you can’t function well without him. Men feel especially powerful in this situation, and acts of revenge can backfire.

You also don’t want to do or say anything that makes him think your goal is to get back together. If it is or not. No, you want to have a nice conversation with your ex like you would with a friend, but leave him thinking that you are completely indifferent to him romantically. The most effective way to get back at your ex boyfriend is to make him believe that you are strong without him. I guarantee that this will really upset him, whether he wants you back or hates you. You can win either way with this approach.

Tip #4

At this point, if your ex is no longer interested in you, they will probably fade away. Your actions up to this point will have dispelled any desire for him to seek revenge. If he keeps in touch with you or “bumps into you,” then you’ll know why: he loves you more than ever. If you want him let him go through all the motions first and even then he responds very slowly and tries to date someone innocent for a bit. You are still getting revenge by being in control and making him wait while you continue to improve and take your time to consider getting back together.