Foreplay – The Key to Sexual Success – Opening Moves
For many people, the perception of foreplay is kissing and caressing.
Nothing could be more wrong. Foreplay consists of foreplay, non-linguistic communication (including body language), and acts that are intended to elicit a response from a potential sexual partner in order to proceed to intercourse.
Learning what foreplay is and how to execute it will be the key to sexual success.
Foreplay is not exclusive to men
Women must also resort to foreplay and often do so in subtle but highly evocative ways.
They will often touch a man’s hand while talking, wet or bite their lips while the man is talking, invade the man’s private space, and other feminine wiles that are just part of their arsenal of foreplay techniques.
before foreplay
The man who is excited, in love or very eager to be a woman should consider well the period known as pre-foreplay.
Women, unless they are incredibly naive, will understand the foreplay moves and respond to them. Very
Good and effective examples of foreplay are:
o Small gifts, just trifles, but appropriate to a situation.
o Gifts of flowers, but only roses that have a wonderful and fascinating scent.
o Discover something about your future partner. Give it to him, at a very appropriate time. This will show him your sensitivity and even your intellect.
o Remember that every female is concerned about her responsibility to “nest”, to be a possible nesting partner in her eyes.
o In a restaurant, order correctly. Refrain from heavy foods that can destroy the mood of love. It is not trivial to order oysters and champagne.
It’s a good foreplay.
For dessert, order yourself some sherbet, but for her, something sinfully sweet and tasty; like cream-filled profiteroles, with chocolate syrup. End dinner with a digestive drink, perhaps an expensive cognac. If he doesn’t drink, suggest a short espresso.
look at the body language
The woman (or man) may be speaking to you without words. This is called non-linguistic communication.
The woman may play with her hair, bite her lips, or sometimes look into your eyes for a moment, as if searching for something. She is saying “your foreplay is working”.
He continues to invade her personal space.
Perhaps the woman put her hand on your arm as she spoke, or even brushed her leg against yours (seemingly accidentally). All of these are signed. You must be attentive and see what her body says.
Carefully return any intimate gesture.
When does foreplay start?
It really varies from couple to couple, but you can assume that if one of you has invaded the other’s personal space and the reaction wasn’t negative, foreplay has started. Now is the time for a dance if appropriate, or to hold hands during some point in a conversation.
Sealed with a kiss
If the foreplay has carried over to the kiss, the serious foreplay has begun. Kissing is one of the most intimate gestures between people.
You share even your breath, and the sensation of a kiss can shake the whole body. Learn to kiss well, or don’t kiss at all. Kissing is the calling card of foreplay, and the opening moves are over.
It’s time to move on to more serious preliminary actions, which are discussed later in other articles in this series.