How to know if a Chinese woman really loves you!
Out of fear that many Chinese women will simply marry for better economic status or a desire to leave their country, I decided to write this article. Not many people have the benefit and perception that comes from living in China and dating a very large sample of women here. In fact, even many years before, in my own country, I had a strong connection to the Chinese community and as a result, I also dated many Chinese women; however, even with all my experience and understanding of Chinese culture, I still “couldn’t see the forest for the trees.”
First of all, let me say this, and it is important for you to know: Chinese women do not express themselves in the same way as Western women. In addition, many signs and signals that you can interpret as a sign that the woman’s feelings are true, are simply a cultural affectation based on behavior patterns that are conditioned on them from an early age; Basically, they are taught to behave in a particular way to find a husband. When they are adults, they don’t actually know that they are doing this, much less in the case of mainland Chinese women, that there are actually women in the world who ‘don’t’ do this!
So how can we know if a Chinese woman really loves you? because I can assure you that love in Chinese culture is no a prerequisite in marriage. However, this shouldn’t be an obstacle for you, as there are an incredible number of Chinese women who are genuine, caring, and of course exceptionally attractive. Most Chinese regard love as an action, as if they did some kind of loving action, so they can honestly say that they ‘love’ you (at least within Chinese culture they can, and few consider this to be a way of love). cheated). Let’s take a look at some real signs that a Chinese woman really does have a deep feeling for you.
One thing that can really stand out when you are in a relationship with a Chinese woman and that can show you that her feelings run deeper than normal is if she begins to show concern for your health. In Chinese culture, a Chinese woman should be openly concerned about the physical health of her husbands or boyfriends, even going so far as to take care of him when he is ill (and I don’t mean just buying him a box of Alka-Seltzer). If, even in the early stages of dating, you show concern for your health verbally or otherwise, you may be trying to show her that your feelings run deeper than usual. Take note of this.
Another great sign that your girlfriend’s or potential Chinese girlfriends’ feelings are true and that she is possibly deeply in love with you is jealousy. Western women for the most part keep their cool when they’re jealous, but most Chinese women just can’t and don’t see any reason for that. Suppressing the emotion of jealousy to any degree is generally related to many native English-speaking countries, however it is not part of the Chinese national character. Whenever you see flashes of jealousy in your partner, you will know that they are hooked!