Kissing tips you should know if you want to impress a woman
Learning kissing tips is something everyone should do. The first kiss is what most women look at when trying to determine if you are a good lover or not. If he cannot kiss, he is most likely lousy in bed, and this is unacceptable for women.
I have a lot of girlfriends and let me tell you, every time they kiss a man for the first time, the first thing they do is tell everyone they know what it was like. One of the first questions a woman is asked after a date (sometimes the first question) is, “So, did you kiss?” If the answer is yes, it is almost always followed by “What is good for you?”
You may have taken my advice on how to attract, approach, and then seduce women, but unless you fully understand my advice on kissing, you will have a hard time keeping any woman. That’s if you don’t know how to kiss already, of course. Knowing how most men think, I guess you think you already know how to kiss girls correctly. However, from what I’ve heard from my friends, you probably don’t know everything.
Everything you do when kissing a girl, especially for the first time, will cause her to re-evaluate any prejudices she may have had about you. You might give the first impression that you are confident, sensual, and intelligent, but if you give her a bad experience kissing her, she will immediately associate a new set of beliefs with you.
Women want to be with a man who makes them feel like they are the sexiest woman in the world, and this cannot be achieved if you cannot kiss. She’ll also think you don’t give a damn because there are great kissing tips everywhere and effective kissing tips are easy to find if you look for them.
However, learning how to kiss girls goes much deeper than applying a bunch of tips to kiss her. To surprise any woman with your lips, you need to know when and how to execute those kissing tips. Mood and weather play a big factor and if not executed carefully it won’t matter if you are a master of kissing because she can’t fully enjoy it.
Men are very different from women and when it comes to kissing, they are TOTALLY different. A man will enjoy any kiss that a woman gives him that interests him, even if it is a bad kiss. I have slept with many girls who could not kiss because men are animals. Also, most men, like me, believe that they can turn almost any woman into the kisser or lover they want.
Women, on the other hand, are much more demanding. If they are not impressed or disgusted by the way a man kisses her for the first time, chances are she will never have a sexual relationship with them. Women want a man who knows what he is doing and they believe that they should never have to teach him to kiss. After all, in a woman’s mind, a bad kisser is a man who is not sensual, and sensuality, for a woman, cannot be taught.
Knowing what to do before the first kiss, or any kiss, can make even a bad kiss seem pleasant. That said, a kiss is not just a physical action, it is an experience. An experience that depends on the process and procedures prior to the physical act.
Building anticipation
One of my favorite kissing tips that I’ve used over the years is building anticipation. If you’re getting positive signals from a girl and you’re almost 100% sure you’d like to be kissed, hold on. The anticipation will increase the tension and making her wait for that first kiss will get her hot juices flowing. All the good things in life are worth looking forward to, and a first kiss is no exception.
There are so many things a man has to do before kissing and this article will give you some very valuable kissing advice that will blow your mind. The art of kissing, especially when kissing a woman, has been studied and researched so much that we have a very good understanding of what separates a good kiss from a bad kiss.
Be kissable
A man has to be kissable if he wants any woman to crave his lips against hers. The appearance of your lips is crucial. Make sure they are moist, smooth, silky, and smooth. Do you know how many men I have seen on a date with dry, chapped and chapped lips? What the hell are they thinking? I don’t care how attractive you are, if your lips are disgusting, no woman will want to kiss you. So use lip balm before dating a woman. Lip balm works wonders and I can’t recommend using it highly enough. You can limit its use only for dating and while meeting women, but if you don’t mind developing a dependency on things, use it all the time!
Prevent or mask bad breath
So you already have pretty lips, right? Okay, some of us do, but there’s something else you should always ask yourself: “How does my breath smell?” People with bad breath rarely know they have it, so even if you brush your teeth a thousand times a day, you should always carry peppermint when you are with a woman you want to kiss. Brushing your teeth does not eliminate halitosis (bad breath) because your teeth are not to blame for bad breath.
Bad breath can be caused by anything from your diet to genetics, and the easiest and most effective way to beat it is by using breath mints. Also, drink lots of water. Staying hydrated will prevent your mouth from drying out, and a dry mouth smells much worse than a wet one. This kissing tip should always be followed because you could be doing everything else right, but if your breath smells, sayonara. You failed. Women are very sensitive to odors and bad breath will make them turn around and run out the door faster than someone out of hell.
Make sure she’s ready to be kissed
Even if you have the prettiest teeth and freshest smelling breath, you should know for sure that she is ready to be kissed. I go into great detail about reading female body language and the signals women send, so I recommend that you familiarize yourself with them because nothing is as embarrassing as being rejected for a kiss. Women send signals all the time and it is very easy to tell if they are kissable.
If you think a woman is sending kissing signals, make sure the mood and timing are right. Don’t rush into a kiss, especially the first few kisses, even if you’re getting positive vibes. As I said before, generating anticipation is very effective and choosing the right moment will make the kiss that much more special. When is the right time? That is something you will have to figure out on your own. Every woman is different, so making your own judgment is important and something no kissing coach can teach. We can set it up and help you run, but ultimately it’s up to you to decide if the time is right.
Move for the kiss
Once you think the time is right, walk over and move in for the kiss. Always make sure the girl is paying attention when you move in because surprising her will scare her. He wouldn’t have time to enjoy the kiss because he wasn’t expecting it. These are the last seconds in advance, when your eyes are locked and nothing is said. She will get excited and enjoy the kiss much more than if a kiss was removed.
Your approach should be slow and smooth. Smile and take this opportunity while you are around to enjoy their scent. Don’t go straight to her lips, take a detour and position her face while gently sliding your lips down her cheeks and then slowly move toward her mouth. Stand back and look her in the eye again. As you move, be sure to close your eyes the moment before your lips touch. Wandering eyes as she gets closer will make her think you’re examining her blemishes and keeping your eyes open during a kiss will scare her. There have been a few times when I caught a woman wide-eyed and let me tell you, there is nothing stranger. I’m sure women find it even weirder.
Be gentle
The first kiss should be gentle. You don’t want to be aggressive and press your lips too hard on her. The key is to find her lips and, to cry out loud, don’t be one of those guys who force their tongue down a woman’s throat. A French kiss on your first try will make you look overly anxious and slimy. Women remember the first kiss and making it as gentle, sensual, and romantic as possible will make the kiss memorable.
After meeting her lips for a few seconds, step back and look her in the eye some more. See if she is enjoying the kiss and if she doesn’t move within a couple of seconds (which happens most of the time), kiss her again. This time a little more while still being soft and sensual.
Enjoy her lips and the kiss
Give the woman you are kissing the impression that just kissing her is nice enough. Don’t start stroking her inner thigh or breasts during the first few kisses or she’ll think you’re just trying to get laid. Take some time to enjoy the kiss and don’t rush. Gently rub your lips against hers as if you are enjoying every last contour. Don’t just close your lips, you want to feel every bit of your lips. Move from the upper lip to the lower lip and vice versa. Do what you can to say: “I don’t want to lose an inch of your lips.”
Relax and breathe
Relax and be sure to breathe. Breathing, although second nature, is very easily forgotten in many activities. It’s not that you end up suffocating if you like a kiss too much, but it is very common for people to lose their breath while kissing and make silly sounds when their bodies involuntarily compensate for the lack of oxygen.
Touch her while kissing
One of the most effective kissing tips you’ve ever read has nothing to do with your lips. Touching a woman the right way is kissing advice that you shouldn’t overlook. Men can be turned on by a simple kiss, but women need much more. Using your hands touching and / or cupping her face will show that you are attracted to her and allow her to feel attractive. Gently touch the outside of their arms or hold their hands. Run your hands through her hair. Just remember to keep him innocent and not touch her.
Don’t just kiss her lips
After kissing her lips and determining that she is enjoying it, move on to other parts of her face. The side of your mouth, cheeks, temple, forehead, and any other part of your face. Women want to feel beautiful and if you gently kiss different parts of her face, she will feel like you can’t get enough of her whole face. However, don’t overdo it, you are not a dog.
Say sweet nothing
You can say sweet things to a woman before, during, and after a kiss. Tell her that you’ve been in love with her for a while and that you were looking forward to kissing her. Comment on how soft her lips are and how nice she smells. Make her feel like she’s the most attractive woman you’ve ever kissed and I promise she’ll open up even more and feel comfortable to progress into French kissing or even sex. Learning how to French kiss deserves its own kissing advice article, so I won’t go into it here. You just need to know that comfort level is important to get the most out of a make-out session.
The kissing tips I’ve outlined above work brilliantly. I give advice on kissing to many men and none of them have been disappointed. I know these tips on how to kiss girls will help you and I hope you enjoy at the last minute as your lips touch hers.