Signs of jealousy
When someone is feeling jealous, unconsciously their gestures and body language can sell it through what we call signs of jealousy. Those signs, if we know how to discern them, can help us a lot in our effort to have a meaningful and satisfying relationship with the person we dream of.
Showing love or affection, especially to the person we are very attracted to, is not something that is easy for everyone.
Some people may have feelings for a certain person and dream about them almost every night. They know that they must let that particular person know about their deep feelings so that they can know if their feelings are reciprocated or not.
But they just don’t know how to start. It makes them suffer. In fact, being in love without knowing if our love interest shares the same feeling is very tormenting.
Especially for shy boys and girls, saying it is often too difficult to do. That fear of rejection always gets in the way of those shy people. And getting over it is easier said than done.
But nevertheless, we cannot allow ourselves to continue living in such agony just because of that fear. Sooner or later we should talk about it or else it could be the biggest regret of our life.
On the other hand, showing it or saying it without any clue if he / she feels the same way about us or not is often too scary! Is there a way to tell if a love interest shares the same feeling with us? Thank goodness, there is. How? Through the signs of jealousy that they unconsciously show if they are also in love with us.
So what signs of jealousy can we use for that? Let’s look at some of them now.
1. Staring at you or staring at you when talking to the opposite sex. Sometimes a jealous person can also act like they don’t care when watching you talk to friends of the opposite sex, but your gut tells you that they are just pretending to act that way.
2. You find yourself “bumping” with him / her always in the places you usually go, and it seems that he / she is too curious to know about your activities and your friends.
3. You find that you tend to say wicked things about your (close) friends, especially those of the opposite sex.
4. He seems upset or “panicky” if, when you are talking to him, you notice that another friend of hers is attractive.
5. It seems that he is very uncomfortable if he discovers that someone else sees you attractive and / or tries to flirt with you.
Those are just some of the signs of jealousy that you can use to guess if your love interest has the same interest in you or not. Of course, you can use this knowledge for many other purposes that you need. To know more about the signals, you can read the article mentioned in the resource box below.