Emotional trauma from a failed marriage
In the case of a failed marriage, it can lead to emotional and psychological trauma. That is, you trust less and close people for fear that they will break your heart. You are afraid of getting attached again once you feel hurt. You are so damaged that when you meet someone who can give you what you deserve, you don’t know how to respond. Relationships are built on trust. Once broken, it’s hard to patch up again.
When overcoming a failed marriage, women experience less stress and better adjustment overall than men. The reasons for this are that women are more likely to notice marital problems and feel relief when those problems end, they are more likely than men to rely on social support systems and help from others, and they are more likely to experience an increase in self-esteem. esteem when they divorce/separate and add new roles to their lives.
Men often face greater emotional adjustment problems than women. Reasons for this are related to loss of intimacy, loss of social connection, reduced finances, and the common disruption of the parenting role. Men remarry faster than women.
In the past, we read that children from broken families suffered from depression. Conflict is seen as the most critical determining factor in children’s adjustment. Children who are successful after parental separation have parents who can communicate effectively and work together as parents.
A child’s continued involvement with both parents allows for realistic and better balanced future relationships. Children learn to be in a relationship through the relationship with their parents. An important factor contributing to the quality and quantity of the father’s involvement in the child’s life is the mother’s attitude toward the child’s relationship with the father.
Separated women are less likely to remarry than divorced/separated men. However, it can be more difficult for men than women to recover with a new partner. This is not to say that breakups aren’t difficult for women, too. Is it so. Both divorced/separated men and women suffer from poorer physical and emotional health. But the harmful effects are stronger for men because they receive less support from friends or family, in part because men are less likely to seek this support. Women find it easier to seek help.
Failed marriage has many strange consequences. It’s very easy to say that you shouldn’t cry over spilled milk and move on. If your marriage is not working out, you will have trouble regaining trust in your other relationships. A failed marriage has many other side effects.
A failed marriage can make you lose confidence in yourself. You may blame yourself for the breakup and feel incompetent to handle a relationship as serious as marriage. You may also plunge into work because you don’t want to think about your failed marriage at all.
Once you lose faith in the concept of marriage, you will have trouble regaining trust in your relationship. Your distrust will include everyone; your friends, your siblings and even your parents. A failed marriage can make you bitter inside. You can become very negative about various things in life, especially relationships.
Just keep the positivity alive in your life because being pessimistic about everything never helps. Never fear the effects that a broken marriage can have on your life and personality. Life is what you make of it.