His body language If he likes you: pay special attention to these
Hey girls!
Today we are going to talk about his body language and what you should pay attention to if you want to know how to tell if a guy likes you. Body language is usually really subconscious, so if you’re having trouble knowing if he likes you verbally, these cues can give him away, because he’s a bit uncontrollable.
So, these are the things you should pay attention to:
Smiles: A smile won’t fade quickly if the person is really interested in you, only fake smiles do… But put the smile aside, I mean it’s important in general, but let me tell you specifically what to look for . . Have you ever had a moment where you were in the middle of a conversation looking at each other, not knowing what to say, and then just smiling? Not the nervous “I don’t know what to say, I don’t want to look stupid, SO SMILE” type, no, not that one. I’m looking for a genuine two-way smile, when the world seems to stand still, where it’s just you and him, face to face, brain shut…
If you’ve experienced this with your guy… Trust me, he loves you. In fact.
Pupil dilation: I didn’t want to write “pupil dilation” here, I think it would just sound stupid and scientific xD. So scientists have already proven this, your pupils dilate when you see someone you like! That’s easy, but you have to catch it. It usually happens at the beginning of the conversation, or after a compliment itself… So try to catch it the next time you meet him.
Blush? – I mean, this is pretty obvious, but what do I mean more specifically? Try giving her a compliment, if she turns red and doesn’t know what to say, it’s her body saying “WOW…That was amazing…wow, I really liked it.”
Reflection: I can almost hear some of you wondering “WHAT??” hold on. Let me explain. Scientists call this subconscious behavior “mirroring” because people tend to copy the body language of the person they’re interested in, in fact. So what are we looking for? Well, if you cross your legs and he does the same, he’s in. Another example, try this sneaky trick: the next time you talk to him, look at your watch, count to three, and wait. If he does too, there you have it. Mirroring can also be used on purpose, to create rapport and connection (but in this situation, you deliberately copy your “target’s” body language and movements… but I digress anyway)
Body Position: This should be number one on my list really… If he looks at you while you’re talking, or turns completely around when you start talking to him, that obviously means something. If he didn’t like you, he would probably turn his head away, not fully offer himself to you in some way, turning his torso towards you.
Touching, hugging: If he touches you while you’re talking, punches you in the arm playfully, wants to be close to you… That’s the thing, I really need to explain this. Just common sense, right? Well, pay attention next time.
So there it is, you are one step closer to knowing if the guy likes you. Also keep in mind that many people say that 70% of our communication is non-verbal, so my final words today would be: don’t rely on verbal things, look for little clues like these.
Also, if you need good advice on dating, flirting, tips on how to talk to men, how to dress, what to do, what to say… Check out this guide, it can help you.
My best wishes,
Miguel