How to be attractive at 50
Did you just celebrate your 50th birthday? Congratulations! You are now in your 50s. A completely different world of internet dating and dating sites has opened up for you.
When you’re “single and looking” at age 50, many of the same dating etiquette rules and guidelines apply to older love as they did when you were younger. One of them is that, whether you are a mature man or woman, you want to look your best.
The problem is, when you’re 25, all you need to do is get out of bed, shower, brush your teeth, and do your hair, and you look amazing. Now that you’re single and in your 50s, you can still look great and be attractive. It’s just that now in your 50s to be attractive, you need to apply a little more concerted effort.
First of all, a good basic preparation still applies. Yes, that means showering and shaving.
For gentlemen over 50:
A number of men in their 50s often want to skip shaving at least a few days a week. A small stubble can be attractive to a man in his 50s. However, gentlemen, speak to your hairdresser and make sure groom your stubble. It could grow unevenly. You can rock a trendy stubble look, just keep it trim and neat.
Second, try some aftershave to find out what you like. Some men can wear just a hint of a masculine scent simply by wearing a scented deodorant. When it comes to scents, just remember, less is more. Keep it light.
Finally, dress up a bit when you go on a date. Women still love it when a man wears a navy blazer. Sure, you can be casual in the modern era of digital dating and just pair it with an open-necked shirt. If the occasion is a bit dressier then plan on wearing a tie as well. She will love it. If the situation is more casual, a nice clean tropical print shirt that isn’t too colorful might be fine. It depends where you live in the country.
For the 50 year old ladies:
Ladies, you should keep some of the same ideas in mind. Keep your standards of personal grooming high. Some of you may have attracted your first husband in your 20s without ever wearing makeup. However, now that she’s in her 50s, she’ll likely benefit from wearing some light makeup.
Before heading to the makeup area department, keep it simple and light. First stop by the local pharmacy. Try a light powder foundation paired with some mascara to enhance your eyes. Add some lip color, either in a tinted lip gloss or a sheer lipstick.
When it comes to how you dress, a cute pair of jeans paired with heels is a fun and girly look. Men still love to see women in a skirt or dress, so wear them when you can. Once you look good, you’ll be flirting with the older men who show up at coffee shops and the bagel shop for lunch.
Once you’re flirting, go ahead and ask for the date! Now that you’re being hot after 50, the dates will surely line up. What are the mature dating challenges you are encountering? Where do you want help? Hit the comments section here, and I’ll be sure to address them in future articles.