How to save my relationship and recover a life together of love, harmony, fun and excitement

Have you ever been in a situation where you find yourself constantly arguing with your partner? Have you ever been in a situation where you’ve been seriously questioning why you can’t get your message across and that talking to each other has turned out to be so difficult? Charge no more. You are not alone. In fact, you share the same thing with millions of other couples around the world. You may not speak the same language, you may not have the same education, much less have the same customs and traditions, but one thing remains, that this is nothing more than normal. It may even seem like something so difficult to handle, so difficult to overcome. Once again, this is just normal, isn’t it?

Relationship is about togetherness, acceptance, understanding, loyalty, trust, and most importantly, love. Love itself is vague. When do you know you’re loving enough? When do you know you’re loving for the right reasons? When do you know you’re loving the right person to begin with? Well, I’m sorry to disappoint you, but no one really knows. You are in a relationship because your heart and mind tell you that this is the right thing to do. That is definitely something no one can argue with. Relationships themselves are uncertain and that’s what flavors everything you think you already know.

Now, if you think that somewhere along the way of this uncertainty, something is wrong, then you have to focus on yourself more than anyone and anything else. Think and think a lot. Ask and ask yourself. Are you being too sticky? Are you being too needy? Are you smothering your partner because you only want them to do the things you want them to do? If you answer yes to all the questions, let me tell you that there is definitely something wrong. Being in a relationship is not being a Hitler in the making. You have to grow together, taking time to be for each other. If at some point a dictatorship is brewing, then he must probably have misunderstood the true meaning of the relationship.

The best way to save your relationship is first of all to realize your flaws. Of course it can’t be you. So this is when you let your partner know that something has to change, that somewhere there is something wrong. It could be you, it could be your partner, but the most important thing is that you both realize this unspoken truth that something has to change. Now when you have to make that change or phase, everything will go smoothly. Everything requires an open mind.